What is your advice for early stages of dating, when the other person declared that they hope for a relationship with you but they actions show that they are not very invested in your relation?
What is your advice for early stages of dating, when the other person declared that they hope for a relationship with you but they actions show that they are not very invested in your relation?
Always listen to their actions and feel free to actually say that to the person - 'I understand you want a relationship and so far, I have found that your actions are not aligning with those words and it's creating confusion. In order to be in a relationship, I need ... to change'. They can hope as much as they like but ultimately if they are not displaying actions that display investment, then it's unlikely the label of a relationship will make you feel any more secure.
What is your advice for early stages of dating, when the other person declared that they hope for a relationship with you but they actions show that they are not very invested in your relation?
Always listen to their actions and feel free to actually say that to the person - 'I understand you want a relationship and so far, I have found that your actions are not aligning with those words and it's creating confusion. In order to be in a relationship, I need ... to change'. They can hope as much as they like but ultimately if they are not displaying actions that display investment, then it's unlikely the label of a relationship will make you feel any more secure.
M xx