My fiance and I have a very open and flexible approach to finances. I am earning more than him at the moment so I am paying the majority of our bills, I have the direct debits directly from my bank account. He pays for our internet and TV packages and grocery shopping and also some debts that were accrued prior to our relationship. He re…
My fiance and I have a very open and flexible approach to finances. I am earning more than him at the moment so I am paying the majority of our bills, I have the direct debits directly from my bank account. He pays for our internet and TV packages and grocery shopping and also some debts that were accrued prior to our relationship. He recently took a pay cut to escape a toxic work environment so I took some household bills back from him to allow him to be mentally happy at work. I would much rather have less spendies for me than him be unhappy at work. We often sit down and go over our monthly budgets when there is a big payment coming up (new car tyres, MOTs, annual subscriptions etc) and see what we can contribute or if we need to realign the bill splits. Honesty is the best policy by far!
My fiance and I have a very open and flexible approach to finances. I am earning more than him at the moment so I am paying the majority of our bills, I have the direct debits directly from my bank account. He pays for our internet and TV packages and grocery shopping and also some debts that were accrued prior to our relationship. He recently took a pay cut to escape a toxic work environment so I took some household bills back from him to allow him to be mentally happy at work. I would much rather have less spendies for me than him be unhappy at work. We often sit down and go over our monthly budgets when there is a big payment coming up (new car tyres, MOTs, annual subscriptions etc) and see what we can contribute or if we need to realign the bill splits. Honesty is the best policy by far!