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I totally agree. One point you make is basically about the relation I'm involved in right now. We're exclusive but we're not in a relationship. He said it upfront that he wants to date me for some time (with no intention of us seeing other people) before he decides if he wants to put an official relationship label on this. I was vary at first, but then I realize that this man is caring and affectionate about me, very understanding, treats me right and I always have 100% of his attention when we are together. Plus I've known him only for a month, so I don't see anything wrong with him wanting to take things slow and test the waters a bit. This official relationship label or changing your relationship status of your socials don't guarantee that you're going to be happy with someone. It's about your dynamic and the bond you create. I am happy as we are and I am in no rush to be officially called his girlfriend, as I already know that I am important to him. Some of my friends don't get it, but for me as long as you're happy in the relation and enjoying each other's company and exploring things further, it's all that matters.

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Hearing you say that you have fallen in love with your boyfriend gave me the pink, rosy happy feels for you! I followed you for many years and I’m just so happy you have found a happy and healthy relationship!

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