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Lisa Dixon's avatar

This is just the article I needed to read on my lunch break.

I am 8 weeks away from becoming a qualified counsellor, I have gone through my (highly intensive) training whilst holding down full time work, planning a wedding and getting married and starting a new job. I have just been hired as a life story worker and am employed to help tell children why they are unable to live with their birth parents- it’s incredible and they trust me with the massive privilege of doing so. I’m so proud of me! And I’m only just learning that saying that is ok!

- ps when I qualify I have decided that part of my monthly Cpd budget is going to be spent on being a paid subscriber! So thank you!

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Helen Clamp's avatar

I love this!!! I changed careers to Surface Pattern Design almost three years ago and I'm still in the stage of finding my audience & clients to build a consistent income BUT despite not having the income yet that backs up me being "good" at this, and while I'm always learning & improving, I am confident that I am already good enough to create professional work for clients (and have felt that way for some time.) Even though I know as I learn and grow I'll look back and see things in older designs I'd do differently, I am still really confident and happy in my work right now. I walk around shops & see things online and know my designs could fit in those commercial spaces.

What does come with that is moments of thinking am I delusional because I don't have the level of external validation yet that matches my internal confidence. But I do have people whose judgement I trust, and who wouldn't just stay nice stuff if they didn't believe it, who reassure me that my designs are the quality I think they are.

The other one that comes up a lot and annoys me so much is "self-sabotage" which pits actions that you take to keep yourself safe as the enemy, rather than something that has probably been very useful in the past but you realise now needs to change to help you move forward!

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